Having a baby now? What? Are you crazy~?!
Am I? If not now, then when can I have a baby? Yes, I'm a student, doing my masters. And I'm already 26years old. If I wait for another two years, then 3 years, I'll probably be too old to have my 1st child and the chance of getting one is thin. Then after my Master's, if I'll pursue on getting a PhD, then I'll be more busy and have to be more focused on my research than I am now. So I think now is the best time. Although I'm not even sure I will be accepted for a PhD, but there's nothing wrong to dream big. Hehe. Besides, if tak dpt continue PhD, then I can focus on my second child plak. Hehe.
How about our financials? Alhamdulillah, now our living expenses are more than enough for the two of us (coz we don't go out often & eat out), so we managed to save some every month. Besides, adalah rezeki baby ni nanti kan? Insya-Allah.
Besides, the environment here for me to be pregnant is much better than in Malaysia. I have only a few friends, so I don't gossip a lot. I am less stressed out than I am in Malaysia, I see & hear less people that makes me stressful & depressed. I'm not tempted to eat a lot of oily foods & pasar malam foods (hmm..yummy!). Hehe. And lot of other reasons.
So for those out there who don't believe in us, or think that we are crazy, please understand that this is what we want and what we have decided on. So mintak tolong doakan kesejahteraan & kesihatan baby & mama dia okay? Thanks....
p.s: I know the 1st 3 months ni kena jaga betul2. Mintak2 la baby ni lekat dan sihat & kuat. Amen.
My new diet consists of:
How about our financials? Alhamdulillah, now our living expenses are more than enough for the two of us (coz we don't go out often & eat out), so we managed to save some every month. Besides, adalah rezeki baby ni nanti kan? Insya-Allah.
Besides, the environment here for me to be pregnant is much better than in Malaysia. I have only a few friends, so I don't gossip a lot. I am less stressed out than I am in Malaysia, I see & hear less people that makes me stressful & depressed. I'm not tempted to eat a lot of oily foods & pasar malam foods (hmm..yummy!). Hehe. And lot of other reasons.
So for those out there who don't believe in us, or think that we are crazy, please understand that this is what we want and what we have decided on. So mintak tolong doakan kesejahteraan & kesihatan baby & mama dia okay? Thanks....
p.s: I know the 1st 3 months ni kena jaga betul2. Mintak2 la baby ni lekat dan sihat & kuat. Amen.
My new diet consists of:
| Fruit salad. Asik nak makan menda manis jek..baik mkn fruits. |
| My multi-vitamins |
abaikan je apa org kata haha. yang nak usung perut esk2 ni kau jgk.. :D
ReplyDeleterezeki Allah dh tetapkan la. slalunya org kata, setiap anak yg lahir, dia bawak rezeki baru dlm keluarga. xpe, jgn risau2 tau. Allah tau apa yg terbaik utk kau. kalau dia tau kau xmampu jg diri n baby, xkanla Allah bagi kau pregnant time ni kan?
aku setuju pasal umur n pregnancy. lagi lambat try, lagi ssh chances nak conceived. tambh plak, risiko nak bersalin czer pn tggi sbb xlarat push. haha. xnak la kan, bila korg dh nak pencen, anak baru tadika. haha lagi lawak
pape pn, jg kesihatan n baby. insyaAllah dipermudahkan semuanya nanti :D